Friday, April 25, 2014

Silver Spoons; Wooden Spoons; Passing the Buck



In college, I majored in economics.  For a lover of words and the literary arts, this seems an unlikely move.  I made the choice for several reasons.  One, because it was the ‘80s; two, as someone with five planets in Capricorn, practicality was big on my radar.

The third reason, however, was the most compelling.  I knew even back then that money drives much of human behavior and the events of our world.  I wanted to understand this dynamic more deeply, and I thought a greater focus on studying econ would facilitate that.

Well, it sorta did, and it didn’t.  What I did take away from delving into the very dry and theoretical world of econ (except for the class on the economics of the Plague) was the awareness that because we live in a capitalist society, when looking at any societal dynamic, to always “follow the money.”  In other words, to look for and at the economic driver of anything because there usually is one.  

Cynical?  No.  Realistic?  Yes.

Yet as I moved on in life and life became much less theoretical, I came to see and experience the complexity, paradox, and challenge that is money.  The human relationship with money does not correlate so cleanly on an X-Y axis.
I wandered far off “the grid” that is theory and entered a whole new world of sticky, angst-ridden, real-world inquiry about money.  Here is some of what I’ve gleaned.

1.    We are each of us born with different spoons in our mouths – silver, wooden, metal – and many with no spoon at all.  If we are to live in a world that values the dignity of all people, it is vital for the “haves” to remember that they had help and whatever financial security they have attained was not solely of their own making.   

2.    Money is energy.  Flowing healthfully, the system within which it circulates is balanced.  When energy is overstored, it leads to imbalance, a “fattening.” Unregulated capitalism has wrought severe imbalance in our society.  An obese few hoard at the expense of a malnourished many.  Properly stored energy is healthy.  Overstored energy is not.

3.    In this society, value is assigned to people based on how much money they make or generate.  A thriving society requires goods and services of all types.  Innovation, service, creativity, social good, and productivity are all facets of a vibrant economy and, in my view, should be valued with more parity and dignity.

4.    Let us expand our consciousness and realize that there is far more to an economy than money.  Buying and selling is only one form of transaction.  There is also sharing, borrowing, gifting, bartering, re-using, and volunteering.  The worthy challenge is to embrace and encourage the integration of all of these transactions and exchanges into our economy.

5.    We assign price to that which is priceless.  With less and less social oversight by dysfunctional and compromised governing centers at all levels, capitalism has reduced virtue to a commodity and relegated the cornerstones of human welfare (i.e. health and education) to a callused and rigged marketplace.

Not only are more and more people being rendered precipitously vulnerable by our economic system, but we are incentivized to concern ourselves only with ourselves at the expense of the welfare of the collective.

The time is now to deeply and consciously discern what, as human beings and as the human race, we want and need and to take personal and collective action toward making new choices involving money.

Friday, April 11, 2014

Halloween Hollowing



I suspend my flow of prose this week to bring you a poem that woke me a few nights ago, asking to be written.  I happily complied.  I know it’s not quite Halloween, but both I and the poem could not wait for it to be shared with you.

                                            Halloween Hollowing

                             We are pumpkins.
                             In the darkness, under the moon,
                             We are hollowed clean.
                             Our carved, curved
                             Smiling faces of joy emerge,
                             And the flame shines brightly
                             From within
                             For all to see in the dark
                             While the spirits dance
                             In celebration
                             And the coyotes howl
                             With delight.
                                                                   2014

Friday, April 4, 2014

Off the Screen; Outside the xbox; Follow the Bliss



If a young person were to ask me tomorrow for advice about what to do with their life (it won’t happen, I know, but I can imagine, can’t I?), I would answer with the following:

“Do many things.”

“Relish many experiences.”

“Know that failure is part of success.”

I would tell them not to invest their identity too heavily in what they did for a vocation or a living.  “Do your best at whatever you do,” I would say, “but know that that’s not what defines you as a person.”

“Life is a dance, and change is constant.”

“Beware of the lure of our consumer culture,” I would add, “with its narrow definition of achievement and success, as it snares so many at the expense of creativity and personal fulfillment.”

Along those same lines, I would say, “Adapting to change and realizing your dreams are best served by living simply and without unnecessary or unwanted encumbrance.” (I would then ask them if they know what “encumbrance” means).

“Technology is a tool, my friend.  Phones, computers, Facebook, Tweets, and apps cannot replace face-to-face dialogue and laughter with friends and family, being in nature, and experiences of all five senses.”

“Build sand castles at the beach.  Make ice cream from scratch.  Play vinyl records on a turntable.  Find an old rotary phone and ask your grandmother to demonstrate.  Handwrite an actual letter to someone now and then.  Lie down on the grass.  Have a water balloon fight.  Play a board game of Scrabble or Monopoly.”

I would tell them to suspend firm belief in anything and to foster a sense of wonder, openness, and curiosity.  “This will keep your ego healthfully in check,” I would venture, “and allow the possibility for greater happiness and joy.”

“Know that you do not have to live your life the way others are living theirs.”

I would tell them to beware of “should’s” and comparisons.  “Both bring us down.”

“Don’t ignore the deeper questions that arise in you.  The good stuff comes when you set out to find your own answers.” 

“You are the captain of your ship.  Take care of it, and mind its course.”

I would remind them that love is possible and happens in all kinds of ways.

“Don’t be afraid to change your mind.”

And here’s a kicker.  “Know that you are here to live your life, not the life that you think others want you to live.”

“Follow the bliss.”

Hmmm…I like my advice.  I’ll take some of that, please.